Couples Conflict Questionnaire (CCQ)

1. Attacking the other person's personality or character.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
2. Blaming the other person when things go wrong.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
3. Using overgeneralisations during disagreements "you always, you never."
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
4. Striking at an emotional vulnerability or weakness to hurt the other person.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
5. Pointing out mistakes and inadequacies.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
6. Using insults and name calling.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
7. Using hostile humour, sarcasm or mockery.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
8. Showing negative body language and using a negative tone of voice.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
9. Demeaning the other person in front of other people.
   Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
10. Making decisions without concern for the other person's feelings.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
11. Playing the victim or innocent party.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
12. Yes butting - starting by agreeing and then disagreeing.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
13. Making excuses or deflecting the causes to circumstances beyond ones control.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
14. Matching a criticism or complaint with a criticism or complaint of one's own.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
15. Repeating one's self without paying attention to what the other person is saying.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
16. Using stony silence during conflict.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
17. Avoiding eye-contact after disagreements.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
18. Using monosyllabic mutterings or speaking under one's breath.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
19. Changing the subject in an attempt to avoid the issue.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always
20. Leaving the room or walking away from conflict.
    Never Sometimes More often than not Almost always

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